Ok so yesterday I said I was going private because I keep getting comments from random strangers... I thought I would post a few of these comments for you all to read... now you all know what a laid back nice person I am so I don't know why my blog has cause so much conflict. But its driving me nuts.. I just got another random comment today!!!!

mgr:It's so nice that Spencer could enjoy the happiness his $25, 000 donation to the anti-marriage California Proposition 8 denies to others.Bigot!

lauren : I second that, mgr. BIGOT!

tkc : Dear Aimee,I am sorry that you've been the recipient of "weird comments" on your blog. I can understand how upsetting that must be to you -- especially since you're not responsible for the political views of your friends. And I'm sure your friend Spencer Wheelwright is a very nice person in many ways. But I also hope you understand the anger that the "retarded weirdos" feel when they see a photograph of him doing precisely the thing he's sought to deny others. And I do hope you understand that, as violated as you feel by strangers reading your blog, that's nothing compared to the violation felt by the tens of thousands of gay Californians -- none of whom have ever met your friend Spencer Wheelwright -- whose lives he sought to directly impact by making their marriage illegal. And I would hope that, given the opportunity, you would say to Spencer what you've said to those commenters: If you don't know gay people, then stay out of their marriages. It's none of his business.